so overall my game is playing great, no real problems or major glitches...however-my female sim has the soulmate aspiration. I've completed the first two sections of it, and am now on the 3rd part. I'm suppose to apologize to my spouse while angry. I've done it about 20 times now, and it still says it's not completed. I've tried it with the female sim mad at her husband and him apologizing to her, with her apologizing to him. nothing. I've tried it with my male sim as the angry one, and had him apologize to his wife, had her apologize to him. nothing. I've had it where they're both angry and they've both apologized to one another. nothing. I even did the apologize with woohoo action. nothing. I have a virgin game (no mods/cc) so I'm wondering if it's a total glitch, or if maybe I'm just not doing something right...? either way, it's a bit frustrating.

How did you make your sims angry?! I'm stuck on the same thing but can't even figure out HOW to apologize!!!

I'm having the same issue as you Cassy, and I've also tried every which way possible to no avail. No fun.

I'm actually having a problem with the second section. No matter how many variations I try, I cannot clear the requirement for being married to your bff. My Sims have max friendship and romance bars, but it still doesn't work.

Hey folks - I've been messing around with this in game, and although it has been difficult at times I've been able to complete it. I'm going to have a chat with our designers about re-thinking if it's balanced properly; the intent certainly isn't for people to need to nearly destroy their relationship to complete this aspiration.Try this...For the Sim that's trying to complete the aspiration, pick a Sim other than your spouse and do Mean socials on them until your own Sim turns angry from the conversation. Now, have your Sim do a single Mean social on their spouse, and then immediately apologize afterwards. The aspiration should complete at that point. Your spouse shouldn't have to do anything, and it shouldn't matter what emotion they're currently in. Hope that helps!

> @SimGuruSemedi said:> Hey folks - I've been messing around with this in game, and although it has been difficult at times I've been able to complete it. I'm going to have a chat with our designers about re-thinking if it's balanced properly; the intent certainly isn't for people to need to nearly destroy their relationship to complete this aspiration.> > Try this...> > For the Sim that's trying to complete the aspiration, pick a Sim other than your spouse and do Mean socials on them until your own Sim turns angry from the conversation. Now, have your Sim do a single Mean social on their spouse, and then immediately apologize afterwards. The aspiration should complete at that point. Your spouse shouldn't have to do anything, and it shouldn't matter what emotion they're currently in. Hope that helps!This actually worked. I had to findangle with this a lot more than I would have liked but at least I got it done. I had the spouse that wanted to complete the aspiration be mean to some random person outside her house. They fought, and she declared the person an enemy. Took a nap for her dazed moodlet to go away (because she lost the fight) and the angry moodlet to take hold. Yelled at my spouse, then smooth apology, completed aspiration.Fighting is nice because it fills up the hate meter between the two sims quick, and then it allows you to declare someone an enemy. I couldn't get the other sim to make my sim angry, I had to declare the other sim an enemy and it always make my sim angry when I do that. My problem was, and you may encounter it, my sim was always winning the fights and gaining confidence boosts that would outweigh her anger. Just hold off on the declaration of anger for an hour after you fight (just keep doin mean stuff to the sim you fought for an hour) so you have a one hour window where your sim isn't confident while angry.Like I said, a little over complicated and forced but at least it's all done.

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c32e390bc2b10d5d
New Spectator
11 years ago
BFF is a bug, just its confirm in some other thread that there is only one BFF in a time. So, ppl will have different to finish the soulmate and the friends of the world aspiration goal. I cannot complete them. But pls dont recommend to use the cheats..... you know sometime the game is so unstable, using another cheats will make the game easy crash.
MsSPhilip
11 years ago
Tried that aaaaand they hate each other x.x

Neeeeever mind I made it now to make them lovers again x.x
Demetrius7605
Seasoned Ace
11 years ago
They are to d... happy! Two seconds after fighting they are happily chatting again. With red bars...

I did manage to get her angry by insulting her with a different sim, but the apologize socialization did nothing.
I just completley broke their marriage, and he still cant finish his aspiration.

Any chance this will get fixed?
Reaperwolf99
11 years ago
Well, I discovered what my particular issue was. I was misreading the one who had to be angry. I was reading as 'apologize to spouse who is angry' when it really was supposed to be while (you) are angry, apologize to your spouse. That worked. As far as the angry part-easiest way to do it is 'lock' both sims in a room with an angry painting (emotional aura enabled) or several (I removed door) then have the one with the aspiration make a small (i.e. mean/insult) gesture to the spouse. Use whatever apology available and that should work.
JoxerTM22
11 years ago
"SelenaGrey;12723398" wrote:
The ONLY way I was able to complete this....

1. Make a room in your house with ZERO decor so they are 'fine' while inside.
2. Make them both go in there.
3. Make them insult each other.
4. Get them both angry. This only worked for me when they were both angry.
5. Apologize.
6. Done!

It's not the only way possible but is the best one. Thumb up.
Just to add: to make them angry faster just add an angry pic (enable aura) on the wall.
Tomsde
New Adventurer
7 years ago
I can't get beyond level two because my sims are having gold medals for their dates instead of silver. Is there a work around for this--I mean gold is better than silver--so shouldn't getting gold on a date satisfy that hurtle?
metalfenix_Raf
Rising Veteran
7 years ago
It's weird, because one of my sims have the soulmate aspiration, and finished the two dates with silver goal just minutes ago, and the dates were finished with gold. Both of them. Maybe you had your sim glitched? (it can happen). I think there is a cheat for the aspiration goals, maybe you can try it.
EA_Cian
7 years ago
Please don't necropost in threads, thank you.

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