It's all fine for me because zero friends around is pretty much my reality anyway lol I rarely hang out with anyone and my only social interaction off the computer is whenever I get called in to work or go on Pokemon Go raids. I have my bff, but he's online only at this time since we're in two different states, but yeah. I am just finding it an odd concept in the game now that I'm paying attention to it. I guess the way around the food and drink thing is to simply make those items and leave them out and if the guest wants to eat them they will.