Forum Discussion

BK747's avatar
3 years ago

Top-Notch Toddler Tip and Tricks

I love the toddlers in the Sims 4 and feel like I've slowly learned a lot about the best ways to build skills in order to achieve the top-notch toddler trait.

For those who don't know, the top-notch toddler trait is earned when your toddler completes level 5 of all toddler skills before aging up. The trait then gives them a boost on all future skill gains. It's a lot of work, and requires constant attention for the entirety of your sim's toddler lifespan, but definitely worth it in the long run.

I feel like there is always something new to discover that maybe I didn't realize before, so I thought it would be great to start a thread where everyone can share their best tips and tricks for building toddler skills as quickly and efficiently as possible, as well as just general tips to help in raising your little ones!

My best tips...

Movement - The slide is great, but the super cute "Play" animation that parents can initiate with the toddler seems to be an even faster way to build movement skill.

Imagination - Use the slide first before any imagination activities to get a playful moodlet. Reading books to toddlers seems to work faster than just having your toddler play with the dollhouse or toys. That said, the play tent from DHD seems to develop imagination skill at an even more accelerated pace.

Communication - Definitely the easiest toddler skill to develop in my opinion, just spam a bunch of interactions with Blarfy.

Thinking - Definitely the hardest in my opinion. Flash cards and building blocks always seem to be such a hassle and really slow to develop the skill. Having the inquisitive trait definitely makes a difference here. The key is getting to level 4 though, as once you get there, you unlock the "Ask Why" interaction, which allows you to get that last skill point very quickly. It annoys the parents tremendously, but does the trick!

General Trick - Fresh food... it doesn't refill the hunger bar as quickly as a meal and you have to eat several pieces, but it is so much easier to feed your toddlers this way. Just put a bunch of fruit and veggies in their inventory and you can quickly cue them to eat a bunch of them without the hassle of musical high chairs. It is even more effective then putting a plate of food on the floor, because who knows where the toddler will wander off to to eat that food. An added bonus with the fresh food is that they also get a happy moodlet which benefits communication and thinking skill gain!

Hope this helps with your gameplay and looking forward to reading others' tips and tricks!
  • "Kita5399;c-18049204" wrote:
    I often use the independent trait, especially if I have multiple toddlers. It’s great because they get a positive moodlet from “being on my own”, and they can use the potty by themselves right away.


    Agreed... being able to use the potty on their own right away is a huge benefit!
  • "Elliandre;c-18049593" wrote:
    I love playing with families that have toddlers. I've only got that trait once. So many things here I didn't know about. I like to give them all the Independent trait so they teach themselves how to use the potty lol and also don't get upset if they are left alone.


    "LatinaBunny;c-18049981" wrote:
    I love playing families, but my toddlers don’t get all of their skills done because I always forgot what objects or actions raised what skills, so I usually just let the toddlers learn some stuff from parents and then leave them to learn and explore the house/world around them and pick up skills along the way.

    I definitely tend to focus on potty training, movement (my toddlers are free to move everywhere, anyway, and get food servings from the tables/surfaces), and either flash cards or stuffed animals and tablet for some other skills.

    I’m still exploring/discovering ways to raise skills, so this thread’s tips are great for me, hehe.


    Glad the thread is proving helpful to you both!
  • Kids can teach the toddlers blocks freeing up mom and dads time. And kids can clean potty seats. Have your child set the table every day. It makes there manners go up and if the table is set everyone will sit there to eat. If you have everyone dance together with toddlers bobbing to music their social, movement and fun all go up.
  • Independent trait

    Ball pit for movement
    Blarfy for communication
    Tent for imagination
    Potty as often as possible
    Watch family members or nanny plus do "what's that" all over the house for thinking... I'll add flash cards if it's going slower than usual

    Top notch in 3 sim days no cheat needs, fastest way I've found without cheats involved

    I don't bother with manners etc until they're kids. I love the toddlers but 4 sim days max is my limit to top notch toddler
  • SilentK008's avatar
    SilentK008
    Seasoned Newcomer

    Hmm.... the best thing for me with toddlers was figuring out how to have fun while playing with a household with kids. I just turning aging of for a bit in my game.

    My little household got so hectic that it was just a matter of getting everything done, creating a story was sort of slipping away and that is not how I want to play. I turned aging off so that I could focus on my family without feeling stressed about having a limited number of days to do things in. The older kid could have a day in the park with friends, mom and dad could spend time with friends as well. There is an bigger arc with the entire save that involves several households, I could swing by other households and nudge them in the right direction.

    Also I use triplis lock-skill-mod so that I can lock skills. I do not want my parents to max out the parenting-skill too quickly and I try to figure out how good they are at taking care of the kids and let them level it up to something that feels right. I play long-stories so my sims always level up too quickly.


    https://triplis.github.io/mods/lock-skills.html
  • "SilentKitty;c-18106048" wrote:
    it was just a matter of getting everything done, creating a story was sort of slipping away


    having parented a toddler in real life, that feels real
  • "MayaRose1138;c-18049977" wrote:
    If you read your toddlers to sleep, and they get the Whiz Kid aspiration as a child, you can complete the “be read to by an adult for 2 hours” straight away. Multi-tasking :lol:


    I had noticed this as well... and since completing that aspiration milestone can be a bit finicky when your sim is a child, super beneficial to complete it as a toddler!

About The Sims 4 General Discussion

Join lively discussions, share tips, and exchange experiences on Sims 4 Expansion Packs, Game Packs, Stuff Packs & Kits.

33,164 PostsLatest Activity: 36 minutes ago