game wont load at all, with or without mods will not load. after update

after the past two updates my game wont work AT ALL and when i say at all i mean i took out my whole mods folder, turned off using mods in game, did everything. before i removed them, it was loading to a black screen and i couldnt get past it. took out all mods and cc and now it loads all the way to where i think i'll be able to play, i click load game and it goes to the main world screen. when i click on my sims home its stuck on the spinning plumbob screen. i literally deleted and redownloaded every single mod and it STILL didnt work. i hate playing without mods.. and it literally won't even let me. should i try uninstalling and reinstalling the sims all together? this sucks. every single update this happens but i always find a way to fix it. this time, since i cant even play no mod literally, im not sure what to do. ive spent so much money and time on this game. bought a new laptop literally ONLY to play sims... if anyone can help please. im not sure what to do ive tried everything putting mods back in one by one, playing no mod, etc. help help help :(