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asthehind
New Adventurer
5 months ago
Status:
Needs Info

Sims who have been best friends/enemies remain as acquaintances

My sim Rufus is trying to romance Maira Watson and has reached high friendship status. But for some reason their relationship status is still at 'acquaintance'. He'd like to ask her to be his girlfriend but that option doesn't appear, perhaps because they're just acquaintances? I have searched for this bug but all the results are several years old and I'm unsure if the fixes listed are still relevant. Any help would be appreciated!

Game version - latest

Platform - PC 

Mods - a couple of minor gameplay mods, nothing new recently 

Edit By Crinrict: Adjusted Title fit migrated bug report: [ARCHIVED] Sims who have been best friends/enemies remain as acquaintances | EA Forums - 11485222 

Archived thread had around 18 me toos

8 Comments

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    As this has been reported in the past, you don't need to remove your mods/cc for this one but for the future, make sure to remove your whole mods folder and test on a non modded game before reporting something. Also delete the localthumbcache file

    EA is looking for saves so it would be great if you could send yours as instructed here: [INFORMATION] How to Send User Files to The Sims 4 Team | EA Forums - 5048472 

    Please DM the link to EA_Cade
    Make sure to include a link to the thread you're sending the save for.

  • Is this thread still ongoing? Because I have the problem of stuck acquaintances. My couple have been romancing with each other for quite a while. I wondered why they kept showing apology options and struggling to get an option to woohoo and then noticed that they were not marked as partners. Today they got engaged - it shows it in CAS and in their opened panels, but in the relationship panel at bottom right and when they are talking to each other it still shows them as acquaintances. My game is fully updated, no mods or cc whatsoever and I have almost all packs (a couple of kits missing). I'm on PC and have deleted the local thumb cache file with no difference.

     

  • My sim has a boyfriend, who she's best friends with, but their relationship is still only acquaintances. 

  • It has happened about 3 times now in the past week. The first instance, a Sim had maxed the friendship and the romance metre with their partner, however they were still listed as acquaintances in the relationship panel, meaning that I couldn't progress in the Soulmate Aspiration. In the other 2 instances that happened today, my Sim did a series of mean interactions and then fought with another, which would usually lead to them despising eachother, but they were instead listed as acquaintances. The same occurred a few minutes later whenever my Sim did a series of mischief interactions with a Sim and despite being beyond the threshold to be disliked, they were still an acquaintance. The odd thing is that it doesn't happen every time, as my Sim has had people dislike her today. This is limiting her progression in the Criminal aspiration. I noticed all of this as a bug on 8th of July 2025 at 22.30. I play on Xbox. Even if I restart the console or restart the game, the bug still remains. I have no mods or CC and play base game only.

    I don't have an image for the first instance but one for the second and third. 

  • plumbobwillow's avatar
    plumbobwillow
    Seasoned Newcomer
    5 days ago

    Sims are stuck with the acquaintance relationship tag even with a full bar of friendship and romance.