The Apex legends community is extremely cancerous and disappointing.

It pains me to say this, but yeah. I feel like the gaming community in general is half good people, half bad people, and the bad half kinda feels like it's the majority of the players, sometimes. This situation isn't exclusive to Apex Legends though.

A ProTip would be to funnel your mentality down to ''Just have fun, get some kills'' when you're playing solo. Make ''I need to make my main legend's banner better'' your goal when you're playing solo. If you die and don't get help and you see they're clearly not gonna help you, just leave the game with the clear consciousness that you had fun, did your best, and they're Melon Farmers. xD