Cannot play Apex with party on Xbox

For the past month my wife and myself have attempted to play apex in a party, and every time it will only allow one of us to go into a match. The other gets “connection to server timed out, (Code:Leaf)” we have restarted each one of our Xbox’s, uninstalled and reinstalled our games and it may cause it to work for a match or 2. So we basically gave up and played other games until a few days ago when we tried and magically were able to play most of the day. Flash forward to 2 days later and getting the exact same error code/issue again. 

we did not have this issue until the day season 25 dropped, we had basically played religiously from season 20 on with zero issues. This is getting insane how bad the servers are…. EA fix your freakin game