@butchuggin So none of your friends experience this in a party or solo, it is just when you play with them?
Me and my gf had this issue since the start of S5 but a week prior we installed the Omni Mesh routers in our appartment and everything worked fine until S5 launched. We have one friend we exclusivly play with and every lobby with him or duo would mess up the lobby after playing for about 2:30min. Since everything worked prior to S5 i always assumed it was some feature they introduced that messed it up.
Researched my way to some slites about some routers needing to open ports for apex to run properly, i went into the Omni app to open the ports, could not figure out how so i set it to bridge mode and i assumed the main router had the ports open cuz after that everything worked.
Played at my (exclusive)friends house the night before, just me and him and at his place everything went smooth all night.
Sorry for wall of text friend :')