“Result Code: 10580190000” Please Help!

I bought a digital copy of the full version of It takes two on my brand new nintendo switch 2 and my husband has the friend pass downloaded (also on a nintendo switch). We keep trying but we’ve been unable to connect to each other through the Play Online feature. Whenever we invite each other and attempt to join we keep getting the error “Your account settings has changed. Please connect again now. Result Code: 105-80190000” Please help! Nothings changes I just made a new EA account (so there's no new changes), bought the Nintendo online subscription to play, and bought the game and it still doesn't work. There's  forums from years ago and the problem still exists. I've tried all troubleshooting nothing works. I just wish I knew the was a problem before buying everything just to find out it doesn't work. I want it to work online like I was promised when I bought the game. Imagine spending so much money for a switch 2, online subscription (which is mandatory to play online), and the game, only to find out you still can't play. I’ve deleted every cashe, I’ve unlinked and linked my account, I’ve restarted the system, and I’ve closed out and reloaded the game several times. I’ve checked my settings on the EA platform and noticed nothing has changed, however, when I go to add an information to my account like my phone number gives me another error code saying this action cannot be done right now. I just want to be able to play the game online like I was promised when purchasing the game. if not, we need to find a different solution.