Ea is pressing my ping down, why ?

So iam pretty new at this game, i dont usually play Ea games but for a while ago i got EaFc or Fifa from a friend who couldent play it.

First week with Eafc it was running real smooth, i won some and i lost some, i dont mind losing against players that plays on the same conditions as my self, its a part of a competive game.

Second week was horrible, my players are superslow, not remponsive and the whole gameplay is just a big mess, i noticed that i go from 16 to 18 in ping and my response time is minimum 30 ping, that meens i got match against people that got half of my ping and to compare that with a race is that they would start at the finnish line while i need to run the whole anyway, thats not fair.

My connection is not bad its actually really good, iam an top player in booth Cod and Fortnite, the games are super smooth and perfect in serverconnection, i got a connection 1000/1000 fibre wire, 30 ms, my connection are super stable and iam playing on a Ps5.

I was in contact with my isp and we had a long talk about the ping in EaFc contra my connection, and they said Ea press youre connection down and match you against players with way lower connections, they got this kind of calls from now to then and its common that they do this kind of matchmaking, if there would be a fair matchmaking as in Cod or Fortnite i would have 30 ms and 1000/1000 superfast connection to back that up, with other words the servers, the matchmaking and the netcoding in just Ea and Eafc is just horrible.

So my question is are there any way for me to meet the players i should be matched against or is this how Ea operates, match diffrent ping against eatchother on bad servers ?

I hope someone can explain to me why i dont be matched against other players with 30 ms, seems to me that this game isnt at all about skills just who got the luck to live near Ea servers and connect to them fastest. If iam wrong somehow can someone put me in a correct servers where i got correct matchmaking.

Thnx