Completely Broken

Idk if this game is even real at this point it actually makes no sense i took about 3 weeks off because every single match i was playing was always against me every single aspect of games seemed so fixed and scripted that I couldn't even play it anymore. I've now bought a new controller after my last one broke and thought I'd play again to see if it was because of that and once again it does it all again and probably even worse than it was before. 

My passing, tackling, defending all are non existent in any match i play everything just seems stuck but then I have a 56 rated team absolutely melting my players with perfect passing. I cant even explain how many hours of this game ive spent in the settings menu tweaking almost every single setting and it doesn't change a single thing, ive swapped my form and tactics almost 100 times over and still the exact same results. My team includes about 7 players who all have 90+ pace and they are all absolutely terrible at everything unless another player is using them then for some reason they play unbelievable for them for example my 90 Papin couldn't outrun a dying snail but then any other player who uses him its a completely different style. 

Like what do i actually do ive searched up about 1000 different videos and solutions it all just brings me to the conclusion that there's a bug or it's a connection issue like how can every single match I play be a connection issue or a bug its a multi-billion pound company and yet they can't sort out simple mechanics and instead try to blame it all on a silly little bug. Honestly just feel like they only allow certain players to get good matches like people who blast all their benefits on packs that's just a sad system if that's the case.

Yes this is my coping mechanism but also just want some answers.