Getting DC'd from the game and punished for it

So many times the game chucks me out of games, and then the cheek of it gives me the disconnection warning. 

Happens when I first play a live events match after logging on. Kick off and bam, kicked out of the game and ultimate team. Then bam, disconnection warning, as if was of course intentional. And if it is a mode that has a limited quota of games, I've not lost one. So that is really fun

Then EA servers are now playing up, kicking me out of games ad hoc all afternoon. My connection is not a problem btw. Over the top for what is needed, so I know it is not on my end. Then bam, disconnection warning. 

The cheek is what gets me, as if I am the one disconnecting all these games for lols. Please fix your game and stop inconveniencing me and punishing me