Server problem

I’m on PC. Ultimate Team works, but I constantly get 100+  ping.

My friends in the same region get lower ping.

I’ve tested DNS, IPv4 only, Ethernet, router restart.

I believe my connection is being routed to a distant EA data center

I have normal ping when my friend invite me , and the moment i play rivals i have 100 + ping and its hardly finding any opponents

Can someone help please?