Wins Not Counting in Seasons Mode – Opponent Quits or After Full Match

So I'm about to score an easy goal and my online opponent tackles me hard... it should have been an easy Red Card, but nope it was a Yellow.  So I make the penalty kick, and I know I have enough time to send my opponent a quick message before he starts play again.  I go to quickly send a "Yellow?".. and when I get back to the game, I got booted by the game and got a loss because I wasn't "using the controller"? lol.  This game hates me.