Second aspiration not sticking

Hello, 

Im having issues when it comes to assigning my second aspiration to my sims. Once I assign the second aspiration my sim glitches out and the only thing my sim can toggle in the chat panel is “Appreciation” towards another sim and I can’t click on anything else. The main aspiration gets unset and it disappears, I’ve tried assigning the main aspiration with the drink they have in their inventory and using Sim blender and I still cannot seem to find what is happening. If anyone has any tips or ideas it would be greatly appreciated. 

Thank you.