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xochiquetzl_xkvn
Seasoned Ace
4 years ago

Lifestyle Feedback Redux

I fear that around the time Snowy Escape came out I gave y'all some very frustrated feedback on Lifestyles. My general feeling was that they were too easy to get, impossible to get rid of (I had 4 and no matter how much lifestyle-go-poof potions I drank they wouldn't go away), and that the buffs were too strong. I was particularly vexed that all of my Responsible children immediately became workaholics.

My friend acquired Snowy Escape kind of recently and was having a lot of fun playing with them, so I thought I'd give them another shot. She seemed to be having a blast with them!

Er. I admit that I'm using Bienchen's mod that tones down the buffs. Because Tense +5 is completely incapacitating, that's why. There's punishing us for neglecting our lifestyles, and then there's crippling us.

That said, I still feel like some of them are too easy to get. Some of this might be the fault of Bienchen's mod, as she made it so being friends with your family didn't "count" towards People Person, which I initially considered a huge plus because I tend to play families and therefore all my Sims were getting People Person because they were friends with their parents, siblings, and children despite my play style not being overly social. 😉  HOWEVER.  Um. Now all my Sims are getting Close-Knit, which makes them tense because I don't tend to rush out and make my Sim have a million friends immediately, but they do tend to gradually acquire friends over time. So I play them for a week, they gain Close-Knit, and two or three weeks later they're tense all the time from having "too many friends." :-/

That said, I am, in fact, having a LOT of fun with Active, Outdoorsy, Hungry for Love, Single and Loving It, etc. Techhie depends on the Sim, and the same friend complained that her Sims with the Techhie lifestyle were perpetually tense off-the-grid with a "where's the wifi?" moodlet... while hacking, surfing the web, etc., because she has wind turbines and solar panels. I remember being very frustrated with Techhie because one of my Sims was autonomously obsessed with the gaming mat to the point where he gained the Techhie lifestyle... and then was perpetually bored at work because he was a Conservationist! So I suppose I need to take their gaming mat away if I want them to have an outdoorsy career.  😉

I do know that you probably need to take lifespans into account, and if the amount of time needed to gain a lifestyle was too long it would be impossible for your short-lifespan players, but I'm a long-lifespan/aging off player and like to take things slowly.  😉

Thank you for reading and as you were. :D

12 Replies

  • simsplayer818's avatar
    simsplayer818
    Hero
    4 years ago

    I always see these features as an interesting way to add more gameplay and I'm all for that. Like lifestyles and neighbourhood stories and new aspirations which I'm always excited to see. But then in practice, I invariably find that they bring with them a ton of negative moodlets that end up actually hampering gameplay.

    You want a challenged and busy Sim with an interest that drives them, but instead you get a woeful Sim dragging their feet and orange and blue lines at the bottom left corner, uh oh.

    So I'd like to see lifestyles spur them on and focus them rather than be an unhealthy obsession I guess!

    Playing on console and cheat free as I am, I'm kind of stuck without being able to mitigate the negative effects. I try all kinds of rewards, potions, remedies, emotion berries to keep them motivated and cheerful but I can't help thinking my goodness I'm virtually medicating pixels, oh and now I'm yelling at pixels, and now I've thrown my controller down in a huff!

  • PugLove888's avatar
    PugLove888
    Hero (Retired)
    4 years ago

    @simsplayer818 , yes, it can be hard for players to say exactly what they want out of a game or feature, and even if they manage to do so, that doesn't mean that it will be understood in the way it is intended (kind of like the game of "telephone" or "gossip"! 😅) . And even if players' intents are understood perfectly, that doesn't mean developers can give us exactly what we wish for.  And that is assuming that every player wants the exact thing , which we know isn't true, so developers have to make a decision and it is likely that those who wanted something else will be disappointed! 😓  I do not envy developers !  

    The problem with moodlets can be that even if you remedy the situation you are stuck with the moodlet in many cases, such as the homebody who returns home and still feels homesick! 🙃🤦‍♀️😂

    Yes! It does seem that many of these lifestyles do seem to lead Sims into unhealthy obsessions if their criteria aren't' met all the time. Family oriented Sims should just seek out family members more often, not be super depressed if their children go to school or spouse goes to work. That isn't reasonable behavior for adults.  That is what a toddler does!  And while the Sims 2 had some of this, it was always really presented in a hilarious manner.  You always had the fail-safe mechanism of the Social Bunny or the Psychiatrist who would pop down from your ceiling and help your Sim to function again! 🤣  (Then again, I'm biased since TS2 is my favorite Sims game! 😳🥰)

    I do feel for you playing on console.😭  While I don't use Mods/CC, that is entirely my choice, so I only have myself to blame, and if I change my mind I can just download some Mods and CC in the future.  It is nice to have that safety net!  Hopefully Sony and Microsoft will allow y'all to use Mods/CC one day! 🤞

    "and now I've thrown my controller down in a huff!" That sounds like my experience playing TS3 ! 😬 I would bang my mouse and more often bang my fists on my desk! I would be infuriated with the game, so much so that my husband didn't understand why I kept playing it!  
    I hope you can hang in and find some magic combo of foods, paintings with mood affects, potions, rewards, etc.! 🤞 And hopefully you will be able to use Mods one day! 🍀