My SIM has no home lot and location is "Secret"

Please help! :( 

My SIM purchased a residential rental (a home I placed in Newcrest) - I noticed that when I re-started the game, it was not showing as my sims HOME lot, even though I purchased it, sold the old property she lived in, and moved my sim in.   My Sim also owns a strip club in San Myshuno, and this is the lot that I have to choose in order to play as my chosen Sim.  

I recently changed the lot type of the rental, to Residential (while my sim was on the lot), and the game just started to endlessly load after going back to Manage Worlds.  I had the option to end task in-game and did that.  No Last Exception errors -

I opened the game again today and go through the same process to play as my chosen sim. When I click the rental lot turned residential, I get the option to create a sim to move in (not play as my chosen Sim), and when I click the strip club, and click through to right before you press play to go live, it shows my Sim location as "Secret".  If I actually click to go live it goes back into the Rabbit hole load. 

Her Plumbob is not green on the strip club lot (because it's not home), but it's not showing at all where she lives either! How can I fix this? How do I get her out of the secret location? 

Addons: EP1, EP3, EP15, GP02, GP03, SP03, SP0 and only mods able to be used for/with those packs. Thank you in advance for any and all help! :)