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Mars_24232221
Seasoned Newcomer
10 months ago
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The game won't let my sims marry?

Hello! I am doing the not so berry challenge and I am trying to finish the "leave someone at the alter" task. However for somereason I can't start the wedding? When I click on the arch both the "plan wedding event" and "get married to" options are grayed out and the reason is that my engaged partner isn't on lot. apparently this is a common problem  as I've seen other people say the same thing. I've tried the fixes that people recomended but nothing is changing the options. Normally I would just bypass this and have them elope but seeing as I need to leave someone at the alter for the challenge I can't really skip over this one. 

Any advice? 

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  • NylaMarie's avatar
    NylaMarie
    Seasoned Newcomer
    10 months ago

    My Sims had a wedding and when I click on the wedding arch to exchange vows, the exchange vows is grayed out. It says your fiance need to be invited here and Sims fiance is standing right next to him. I planned there wedding using the calendar using the wedding planner event. My sims do live in the same household but that never been a problem before. Can someone help me?

  • ladyaries404's avatar
    ladyaries404
    Rising Newcomer
    10 months ago

    Same issue. Playing on my computer. I read that getting married in default wedding outfits fixes it. What did work for me is clicking the fiancé and selecting under the romance tab was “exchange vows”

  • The EA app stopped working on my laptop after my laptop updated, so I deleted the Sims and the app and redownloaded. Everything was working fine... until my Sims went to get married. It says that the Sim's engaged partner isn't near and to invite them... and he's in the same room. It's a wedding event, and they were both selected as bride and groom. I tried restarting the game, but it's giving me the same issue. Any tips on how to fix this?

  • Sketch793's avatar
    Sketch793
    Seasoned Ace
    10 months ago

    Try clicking on the partner to see if they can Get Married under the Relationship submenu.