Neighborhood Stories OFF button

I have gotten several disturbing phone calls from my own active family. I got one from my active husband calling my active wife about getting to know another woman who was an PC. I've gotten a call from my active husband to my active wife after only two hours gameplay in a new save asking if he should change careers. I am not talking an NPC calling or an inactive household in my rotation. I am talking same family, same house, etc. Ever since neighborhood Stories came in, I've would up with a set of brothers "swapping" partners no matter what I tried to do to stop it, to the point of eloping without asking or permission IN MY ACTIVE HOUSEHOLD! This is more annoying than the Sentiments making my toddler despite the parent if the parent tries to hug the toddler (which also hasn't been fixed). We need an off switch for Neighborhood Stories as well as Sentiments. And we need the Neighborhood Stores NOT to choose to make the call or action from an active (or even inactive but played) household! Leave my personal Sims alone. I don't care what the NPCs do.