Household sims labeled as "Neighbor"

I started playing my save as normal, My sim left the house to go garden and was unable to get back into it. I moved the door, I reset her, I bulldozed the entire house. I go out of buildmode and realized above her head it said she was a "neighbor"? She's literally in my household. The cheat options don't show up other than reset and cheat need. So I can't even remove her from my family and add her back. 

As well as in cottage living I can't get my cow out of my household inventory. It physically won't let me place my cow. 

As well as not being able to drag plates into the trash or sink. 

I love how every "bug fix" creates more bugs, it steers me away from playing completely when my game doesn't work like it's supposed to. I've had absolutely no issues and then of course update. 

To mention I play on console, this isn't a mod issue it's a game issue. 

Locking the discussion and pointing me in the direction of other threads from FIVE. MONTHS. AGO. doesn't fix my current game issues, god forbid it's a multi report or an issue from the NEW update they just put out. 👎🏻