Unplayable!!!

I'm part of a Sims 4 Console group on Facebook and I mentioned these in a post incase it was maybe just me but NO, soooo many console players are experiencing this!

So far i've had zero issues with build mode, but oh my god live mode is the worst its ever been for me! At random with no forewarning my screen will go black and the game crashes and turns off which just takes me back to my Xbox homepage and while yes I do try and remember to save frequently it's getting to the point where I'm having to save every couple of minutes and it means my sims are just reliving the day over and over and over again because I can't get any further due to the crashing, this is ever since the recent console update. Another glitch i'm now having is my sims won't do any actions I tell them to, they just freeze and don't do anything even if I click 'reset sim' and it means they end up completely missing work etc and they are all now down to a poor performance. My sims also glitch during waking up and just refuse to get out of the lying down bed position even though their moodlets say they are awake. 

CAS keeps freezing and refusing to do anything. I can't even be in it for 5 minutes before it freezes and crashes my game.

Secondly, it is still raining and snowing inside my houses! 

Thirdly, my game settings keep restarting every time I load the game which is becoming a huge pain to have to go through and reset.

As a player of 5 years now yeah I've had the odd glitch or annoyance which happens with games, but oh my god it's gotten to the point where i'm resenting it and it's so sad because it's literally the only video game I play. It's disheartening too as someone who's spent £££ on this game. I've just finished a 3 year diploma and been so insanely busy I couldn't even find time to read let alone load up and play, now its summer and I have all the free time in the world when im not working and I can't even play without getting super annoyed :((((((((