Sims loop, keep moving and wont progress game

So basically for a couple days now everytime I load my save, my kid sims freak out about a monster under the bed and that loops, I can’t press on anything, i can’t pause or speed up time nor is time progressing and even if i manage to pause it, the plumbob for example will keep spinning. I’ve tried removing my mods, I’ve tried pretty much everything and i’m not sure how to fix this. I can’t save or exit and the only way is to press exit or Alt + F4 and then click it until microsoft comes up with ‘The sims 4 is not responding’ Any help is appreciated