I have done this in my game with mods enabled and disabled.
Whether it is under an arch or not, my Sims will exchange vows, but the UI in the wedding ceremony remains unchecked. They even have the moodlet from exchanging vows, but it still does not work.
I'm not sure if anyone else is experiencing this problem.
Edit By Crinrict: Added Tag to Title
HI awkwardaqua
is this a wedding from MWS story or base game wedding ?
There is a known issue where the option is greyed out but that sounds different.
Did you also try moving your mods folder to the desktop and deleteing localthumbcache file instead of just disabling ?
I encountered the same problem, an attempt to get married using the arch after the wedding party helped, apparently the event itself breaks the marriage or the action from the My Wedding Story package.
PC Win 11
Hi there! Sorry for the delay in my reply.
I did move my mods to another folder on my desktop when I originally posted. I never deleted the localthumbcache.
I have MWS stories.
I just tried again after deleting the local thumb cache with no mods in my mods folder and it still is bugged. :(
After the Sims exchange vows and kiss, they glitch and go into a T-Pose. They do get the exchanged vows modlet and spousal kiss modelet.
Version 1.116.202.1030
Had my sims customize a wedding ceremony with Walk Down Aisle, Exchange Vows, Spousal Kiss, Throw Rice, Blow Bubbles, Cut Cake, First Dance and Dancing in a modded game. Everything except Exchange Vows worked. Tried to exchange vows at the wedding arch twice more, thinking it had glitched, still Exchange Vows wasn't checked off though they went through all the motions. Threw together an engaged pair in a new, unmodded game, and again Exchange Vows did not get checked off during a customized wedding ceremony.
I also opened a report for this bug three days ago, but unfortunately I used another section. I and the people writing there have the same problem. My Wedding Story lot type problem | EA Forums - 12306507
Can we solve this bug?
To give you an answer, crinrict, I tried both interactions. The base game and wedding stories and the result is the same.
Same thing here. It takes them literally 4 in-game hours to exchange vows. Planned an entire wedding with activities and on a beautiful wedding lot from the gallery, only for the main one to actually have them married to not work. The event ended with them not getting married and having to elope at home... in their pajamas...
Having the same issue, my game throws a Last Exception when trying the workaround of exchanging vows with the partner instead of under the arch. Sims will reset by going into their A-Pose and then the vows remain unchecked. The sims remain unmarried. Whether it is vanilla or otherwise the error is still thrown. I have disabled mods and localthumbcache. Attached below is my Last Exception:
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<report><version>2</version><sessionid>e9cbdcb37fe4d17b686b97f2</sessionid><type>desync</type><sku>ea.maxis.sims4_64.15.pc</sku><createtime>2025-07-07 05:49:13</createtime><buildsignature>Local.Unknown.Unknown.1.116.202.1030-1.200.000.663.Release</buildsignature><categoryid>bills.py:1856</categoryid><desyncid>e9cbdcb37fe4d17b686b97f2</desyncid><systemconfig/><screenshot/><desyncdata>[manus] household_manager failed to handle on_all_households_and_sim_infos_loaded due to exception (TypeError: '>' not supported between instances of 'NoneType' and 'int') Traceback (most recent call last): File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\areaserver.py", line 130, in wrapped File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\areaserver.py", line 126, in finally_wrap File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Core\sims4\utils.py", line 157, in wrapper File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Core\sims4\utils.py", line 175, in wrapper File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\areaserver.py", line 383, in c_api_client_connect File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\zone.py", line 612, in do_zone_spin_up File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\zone_spin_up_service.py", line 1734, in update File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\zone_spin_up_service.py", line 290, in on_enter File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\game_services.py", line 38, in on_all_households_and_sim_infos_loaded File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Core\sims4\service_manager.py", line 454, in on_all_households_and_sim_infos_loaded File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\sims\household_manager.py", line 424, in on_all_households_and_sim_infos_loaded File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\sims\household.py", line 947, in on_all_households_and_sim_infos_loaded File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\sims\bills.py", line 983, in on_all_households_and_sim_infos_loaded File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\sims\bills.py", line 1465, in trigger_bill_notifications_from_delivery File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\sims\bills.py", line 1939, in _send_notification File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\sims\bills.py", line 1856, in _get_colored_text TypeError: '>' not supported between instances of 'NoneType' and 'int'rtim=0 Client Session Time: 9.32 Num Save Errors: 0 Num Load Errors: 0 Current Game State: 0x96d01090 LoadingScreenActiveFlag: 1 Origin Version: 13,496,0,6009 Modded: False SystemInfo: Windows 10 10.0.19045 GPU: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 4070 SUPER 32.0.15.7283, GUID: 6B64555F-D035-11EF-A1AB-806E6F6E6963 </desyncdata></report>
<report><version>2</version><sessionid>e9cbdcb37fe4d17b686b97f2</sessionid><type>desync</type><sku>ea.maxis.sims4_64.15.pc</sku><createtime>2025-07-07 05:50:08</createtime><buildsignature>Local.Unknown.Unknown.1.116.202.1030-1.200.000.663.Release</buildsignature><categoryid>__init__.py:202</categoryid><desyncid>e9cbdcb37fe4d17b686b97f2</desyncid><systemconfig/><screenshot/><desyncdata>Exception when applying action <StatisticChangeOp <class 'sims4.tuning.instances.statistic_Custom_State_Wedding_Vows'> ParticipantType.Actor> for loot loot_Custom_State_Wedding_PhaseStat_Vows(loot_actions=(<StatisticChangeOp <class 'sims4.tuning.instances.statistic_Custom_State_Wedding_Vows'> ParticipantType.Actor>,), run_test_first=False, tests=CompoundTestList([])) (AttributeError: 'group_Wedding' object has no attribute 'unregister_for_on_model_changed_callback') Traceback (most recent call last): File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Core\sims4\utils.py", line 179, in wrapper File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\areaserver.py", line 222, in c_api_server_tick File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\zone.py", line 520, in update File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\time_service.py", line 117, in update File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\scheduling.py", line 231, in simulate File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\elements.py", line 335, in _run File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\outcome.py", line 175, in on_loot File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\loot.py", line 187, in apply_operations File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\loot.py", line 710, in apply_to_resolver File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\loot_basic_op.py", line 303, in apply_to_resolver File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic_ops.py", line 165, in _apply_to_subject_and_target File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic_ops.py", line 469, in _apply File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic_tracker.py", line 525, in add_value File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic.py", line 377, in add_value File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic.py", line 261, in _add_value File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic.py", line 256, in set_value File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic.py", line 335, in _notify_change File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic.py", line 308, in _update_callback_listeners File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic_listener.py", line 76, in trigger_callback File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic_conditions.py", line 92, in _satisfy File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\exit_condition_manager.py", line 88, in _on_condition_satisfied_callback File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\exit_condition_manager.py", line 131, in _condition_group_satisfied_callback File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\base\interaction.py", line 6770, in _conditional_action_satisfied_callback File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\base\super_interaction.py", line 5736, in cancel File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\base\super_interaction.py", line 5491, in _cancel_eventually File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\social\social_super_interaction.py", line 1739, in _cancel File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\social\social_super_interaction.py", line 1795, in _detach_from_group File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\socials\group.py", line 885, in detach File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\socials\group.py", line 1109, in _remove File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\socials\group.py", line 1132, in shutdown File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\objects\components\state.py", line 2523, in on_remove File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\objects\components\__init__.py", line 202, in __getattr__ AttributeError: 'group_Wedding' object has no attribute 'unregister_for_on_model_changed_callback'rtim=0 Client Session Time: 9.32 Num Save Errors: 0 Num Load Errors: 0 Current Game State: 0x96d01090 LoadingScreenActiveFlag: 1 Origin Version: 13,496,0,6009 Modded: False SystemInfo: Windows 10 10.0.19045 GPU: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 4070 SUPER 32.0.15.7283, GUID: 6B64555F-D035-11EF-A1AB-806E6F6E6963 </desyncdata></report>
<report><version>2</version><sessionid>e9cbdcb37fe4d17b686b97f2</sessionid><type>desync</type><sku>ea.maxis.sims4_64.15.pc</sku><createtime>2025-07-07 05:50:08</createtime><buildsignature>Local.Unknown.Unknown.1.116.202.1030-1.200.000.663.Release</buildsignature><categoryid>state.py:2523</categoryid><desyncid>e9cbdcb37fe4d17b686b97f2</desyncid><systemconfig/><screenshot/><desyncdata>Exception in Sim Timeline: Exception running Element (AttributeError: 'group_Wedding' object has no attribute 'unregister_for_on_model_changed_callback') Traceback (most recent call last): File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\scheduling.py", line 231, in simulate File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\elements.py", line 335, in _run File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\outcome.py", line 175, in on_loot File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\loot.py", line 187, in apply_operations File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\loot.py", line 711, in apply_to_resolver File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\loot.py", line 708, in apply_to_resolver File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\loot_basic_op.py", line 303, in apply_to_resolver File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic_ops.py", line 165, in _apply_to_subject_and_target File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic_ops.py", line 469, in _apply File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic_tracker.py", line 525, in add_value File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic.py", line 377, in add_value File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic.py", line 261, in _add_value File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic.py", line 256, in set_value File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic.py", line 335, in _notify_change File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic.py", line 308, in _update_callback_listeners File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\base_statistic_listener.py", line 76, in trigger_callback File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\statistics\statistic_conditions.py", line 92, in _satisfy File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\exit_condition_manager.py", line 88, in _on_condition_satisfied_callback File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\utils\exit_condition_manager.py", line 131, in _condition_group_satisfied_callback File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\base\interaction.py", line 6770, in _conditional_action_satisfied_callback File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\base\super_interaction.py", line 5736, in cancel File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\base\super_interaction.py", line 5491, in _cancel_eventually File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\social\social_super_interaction.py", line 1739, in _cancel File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\interactions\social\social_super_interaction.py", line 1795, in _detach_from_group File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\socials\group.py", line 885, in detach File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\socials\group.py", line 1109, in _remove File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\socials\group.py", line 1132, in shutdown File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\objects\components\state.py", line 2523, in on_remove File "T:\InGame\Gameplay\Scripts\Server\objects\components\__init__.py", line 202, in __getattr__AttributeError: 'group_Wedding' object has no attribute 'unregister_for_on_model_changed_callback'rtim=0 Client Session Time: 9.32 Num Save Errors: 0 Num Load Errors: 0 Current Game State: 0x96d01090 LoadingScreenActiveFlag: 1 Origin Version: 13,496,0,6009 Modded: False SystemInfo: Windows 10 10.0.19045 GPU: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 4070 SUPER 32.0.15.7283, GUID: 6B64555F-D035-11EF-A1AB-806E6F6E6963 </desyncdata></report>
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The weddings are indeed bugged. I had exchange vows on my list of items to accomplish.
My sims would exchange vows and kiss, then T-Pose, and the exchange vows remains unchecked. The moodlet appears, but my sims do not actually complete this step and can not marry.
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