Check baby interrupts all attempts to care for baby

My household has three parents and two toddlers. \When one parent cares for a toddler, puts the toddler to bed, another will come take them out and put them on the floor. Never mind that the toddler's energy is full red. Just now I had the dad put the toddler back in the crib and the mom comes and does it again. This happens the majority of the time. Basically, when an infant or toddler needs care, all parents are alerted and go to take care of the child and do not recognize that it has been done or is in the process of being done. This happens with putting them to bed, bottle feeding, and high chair feeding too. And for times when care has not been given, the parent does not seem to check to see what is needed so they will keep picking up the toddler and putting them down, then another parent may come and do the same thing.

It seriously takes ALOT to get one toddler cared for sometimes and I have two to care for. I did see another topic for check infant causing problems but I do not think that exactly fits my issue. I think it is part of it maybe, that the check infant is not recognizing that another parent is handling it or has handled it. Another factor may be that all of the parents are vampires and move very fast. So any check that might be in place to let them know another parent is closer does not have time to be delivered, so they arrive and wait and as soon as they can they undo what the first parent had already done.

The dad has just put the toddler in bed and the mom just comes and takes her out and puts her on the floor. 

I had the dad put her back in the crib and immediately the mom came and did it again. 

Dad has just put toddler in high chair to feed her and the mom comes and takes her right out before he can.

Here she does it again with the other dad. 

And she does it again and you can clearly see she is not doing any check or she would know the child needs to sleep and not remove the toddler from the crib. This is the problem I am complaining about that is obviously broken and needs fixed somehow.