I have a little bit more insight into the issue now. I went back to a previous save where the statues were still working (i had originally gotten all companions and was right before weisshaupt when i started noticing the statues not working). I played through a bunch and did my normal shenanigans (mods n trainer stuff) to see if that was the issue, and for a while nothing effected it, and i messed around a lot and they were still working. I did as much as I could side quest wise, got lucanis and all his side quests done. Did all the companion side quests, did all the quests in treviso, minrathous and tried to get all the statues and **bleep** in the crossroads & arlathan that I was able to access, this included the one fen'harel statue in minrathous to get to the champion essence. I just now progressed the story a little further by meeting the first warden, and upon getting to the crossroads after I find that the fen'harel statue in the crossroads when you go to the high anderfels eluvian on the third dock is not lighting up, and there is no button to activate it, so the bug happened again. I'm going to continue the game but I have an old save marked off from where the game wasn't broken yet. So for me the bug happens when I progress the story. I have seen other people saying that the issue fixes itself sometimes after weisshaupt so I'm wondering if it actually is a bug relating to the main quests somehow being bugged. Could even be related to the scene in-between when you talk to varric as they literally talk about the dagger so maybe its something in that? Just some more insight into the bug.
Edit: i went back into my autosaves to get the exact moment the dagger disappears and realized it had to of happened when I was either doing bellara or hardings first personal quest, or during slow poison in treviso. Because my autosave from before doing bellara and hardings quests and slow poison I have the dagger, the autosave I have towards the end of slow poison but not completely completed the dagger is gone. The only other quest I had to complete was coffee with lucanis but in this autosave I hadn't done it yet so that's not where it came from. So it either happened bc of bellaras personal quest, hardings personal quest, or slow poison in treviso.
edit to my edit: i went through the quests again, it didn't bug out this time. i am not sure whats different but i guess ill just have to pay even closer attention to my saves