When I am winning gameplay changes!!!

When I am up and winning I cannot make simple A passes to the player right next to me.  When I am down and losing my players make every single pass even no scope 180 turn around passes.  If you were to say that this pattern happens on a consistent basis you would conclude that something besides your own gameplay is responsible.  But your not allowed to say the words that best describe what these consistent patterns are called.  Especially when I am not the only one,  but rather one of tens of thousands of people this is happening to on a regular basis.  But I must describe it in this **bleep** way or the moderators will say I am lying and ban me.  If this happened randomly every once in a while it would not be so suspicious but the fact that it happens on a regular basis leads to a more probably answer than chance and coincidence.  I think the fact that this company and forum villianizes their fans and members when they report people cheating and when they point out what they saw with their own eyes is pretty disgraceful and shameful.  If you walk like a duck and talk like a duck then what are you?  According to EA you are BANNED.  Utterly disgusting and ridiculous.