Odd connection error that seems unique

Hey folks, I afked a bit during the game and apparently it sent me all the way back to server select, when I tried to log back in it said "Connection error occured", weird thing is I can connect all other servers, it specifically won't let me reconnect to my main server(Darth Malgus), any other server when I connect window pops saying logging into selected server and it logs in, when I click on my main server game freeze for 15seconds no window pop or anything then it comes back and says connection error occured, checked firewall, restarted router and PC, changed DNS, tried VPN nothing seems to work, I play using Steam, theres no chargeback or whatsoever, I really don't want to start over on a new server, any help would be appreciated.