@PugLove888 That cracks me up... I have unruly Chihuahuas and a Yorkie that will surely stop my heart one day with a shrill barking outburst right next to me. Yes, when I was in college (the first time), you would have needed a room for a computer. Personal computer? Nope. Went back to school less than 10 years ago to take one class to 'work on a website' for my home business. Two degrees later I ran out of Pell Grant money, so I stopped with both a 'Web Design and Development' and a 'Digital Graphics' degree(s).
BUT... watching me take my classes did nothing to peak the interest of my kids, either. Their eyes still glaze over if I try to explain the simplest code. Crazy. Weirdest part, which @boopidoop can possibly relate to -- because my laptop was continually crashing from photo-editing work (REALLY crashing... and I would have to take it back to a factory restore/reset more often than I like to remember), I got very accustomed to operating on the computer to fix it - software-wise and physically. So they were just sure I could fix computer software coding and things that are not in my 'branch' of coding. C# and similar programming languages and job applications are an entirely different branch from Web Design & Development (though there are overlaps, and those codes would be way more comprehensible to someone who knows at least some coding). Anyway... I've never considered dealing with mods or learning other code languages on my own. My focus is html, css, php and some javascript. Almost all of the code work I do now is involved in working within the framework of Wordpress websites.
@PugLove888 I think what your brother experienced was very common. People find that as they get into the meat of it, coding does take a lot of work to learn, and it can exceedingly tedious (and really tough on the eyes). My son ran into the same thing in ASL (Sign Language). Many people like the thought of it, and to dabble in it, but to go to school for it and get certified is really a tough field. Many careers are like that... but if you push through it's worth it. IF it's what you love. If not, you don't want to be stuck staring at code, teaching, nursing, or any number of things for your career if you don't have a passion for it.
Code is power, and it's a dance. Problem is that sometimes just the smallest little error can do an amazing amount of damage and throw a monkey wrench in the whole thing. Sooo... since this is not my type of coding, I try to not mess with it (well, not much). 😉