Issues with new update

I’ve been having several issues in my game since the new update. Here’s a list of things: 

1. I am no longer able to leave a lot in the with one sim if another one of my sims is at work or school. When I do, it forces the other sim(s) in my household to leave work or school resulting in decreased work or school performance.
2. When the child in my household aged up from toddler to child, it changed the hair color from brown to red. I fixed this in Create-A-Sim and it seemed to resolve. But when I leave CAS, the child’s hair is still red. I went back into to CAS to see if i didn’t save it but in CAS it shows the brown hair but after saving and restarting my game a few times it’s still showing the hair as red. 
3. My sim has tried countless times to get pregnant and the pregnancy test still isn’t showing up. In another save it got rid of my sims pregnancy completely. 
4. I am unable to drag items to the trash, sink, or dishwasher. This has resulted in extra time being passed in the game to clean up instead of focusing on other things. There are times where even dragging stuff from my sims inventory to the fridge doesn’t work or it bugs out. 
5. My game is lagging when when i try to do the things I listed and has shut off my game and when I load back in, nothing is saved. Yes I save my game about every 5-10 minutes to avoid losing progress in the event of the game randomly crashing. 
6. My sims and pets frequently get stuck on things or guests get stuck at my house and cannot leave forcing me to exit to main menu or exiting the game completely to try again. 

I am unsure about these issues but this is what I’ve been facing since the new update. I’m sharing my issues, I’m not sure if other people have mentioned the things I have, but I want to explain what is happening in my game to hopefully get this resolved. Thank you!