Hey!
Wondering if you were ever able to find a solution to your game not loading? I was able to get ahold of an EA support agent through the chat bot help service on the EA website. They were able to look at my account and help me reset the issue! It involved being patient with the staff members, repeating my issue concisely, and researching the clean booting process but my game is fully updated and playable again! Hopefully you were able to get back into the game before this goes up but if not then my best advice is: grab a snack and something to drink, have your login credentials ready, and reach out to the support team!
xoxo, Bea 🐝