Check baby interrupts all attempts to care for baby

I have uploaded my save file for you. I had to create a save specifically for this and age the toddlers down and move family members back in so that the family was just as they were when all of this was reported. I can confirm that during this process that the problem of putting the child in and out of the crib issue is still present in this game version. 

Here is a good example of caregiving being interrupted because sims pay no attention to if another sim is already doing something with a child. Like here, reading them to bed, or when trying to feed them in a high chair. In this instance, the dad was reading the child to sleep because she was very tired and the butler walks up and kneels down and I could see the question mark thought bubble. Then she takes the child out of bed, walks a short distance away and sits here down and the child is upset because she is tired. The butler should not have interrupted and taken the child when they are doing something with another sim. What they are doing shouldn't matter. Secondly, the butler obviously did a check to see what the child needed and as you can see in the third photo, she only needed sleep. So again, the butler should not have taken her out of bed. All sense is broken when it comes to caregiving. I am not just blaming the butler. All sims will do this stuff and it just turns into an infuriating loop for me, the player. Also there was no routing issue here. I think the child showed that thought bubble because the butler was in her way. As soon as I unpaused she walked right around her and went back to her bed. 

Another good example. The dad picked up the child because I told him to talk to him. So he sat down in the chair to do so but nothing is happening because the mother came and apparently she wants to practice standing with the child. The butler is wanting to do something with the child as well and so they are all just waiting and nobody is able to do anything. I cancelled the mom wanting to practice and she went on about her business, but the dad still couldn't talk to the child because the butler was still standing and waiting. So I reset the butler and that caused the dad to dump the child on the ground and it dropped the command from queue where I had told him to talk to the child. So I told him to talk to him again, but the butler snatched the child up and took him away and this made the command I had given the dad drop off.