this game is soooo annoying all the time

if i get kicked out of a ranked match because the server’s connection is AWFUL or my own wifi is being stupid why in the world do i lose rp and get a penalty ban??? how is it my fault the game wont let me reconnect to a match??? this has been a problem for me AND OTHERS for forever and its seriously so frustrating. also if my teammate gets disconnected from a match and now im left with only 1 teammate, why do we still lose rp if we die?? it’s completely unfair and not my fault that apex servers can have absolute awful connection sometimes.