Tammster01, it is not that your idea/suggestion is bad. It is just many of us informing and knowing the limitations of the game based on the T for teen rating. I have been playing since the first iteration of the franchise in the 2000's, so I knew the game isn't marketed to be hyper realistic. There are some topics that need the silly or unrealistic tone so it can be included, such as saying nectar instead of alcohol or Woohoo instead of the more graphic counterpart terms.
While keeping mods updated is a challenge, that is the option for the type of gameplay you desire. There are things I prefer in-game that I know require mods. Those are things that I know can not be implemented because of the rating limitations for Sims 4.
Certain topics, while important for your own gameplay would require the game rating to change to mature audiences only. The teen rating allows suggestions of topics without it being graphic. While you may not believe your suggestions were graphic, think of it from the point of view of an innocent 8 to 12 year old person.