Recurring crashes, no saving, infinite loading screen

The latest patch messed up my game real good. Can't save, many times I get infinite loading screen when trying to get into the game and now I have recurring crashes when I try to load households.

I followed crinricts advices in the [START HERE] post, and now the problems seems to only be affecting one particular save. I play with mods but have not re-introduced them to the fresh user folder.

Now I get into game and can save, but the crashes are new. It does not seem to be affecting any particular household more than others. I have loaded into my own sims homes and some ea ones which haven't been touched prior. Sometimes it crashes, sometimes it doesn't. I have four different saves and this problem only seems to be affecting one of them, of course the one I use the most. Is there any way to rescue my poor sims and their world?

My DxDiag and LastCrashes are attached.