Can No Longer Play The Sims 4 With Mods - Not Getting Past Loading Screen

As I type this, the loading screen is still going and has been for about ten minutes, which is highly unusual, it typically takes 30 seconds at least, and a couple minutes at most. I can't play a household, I can't go straight into build mode, I just get stuck here.

I feel like I've tried everything. I updated all of my drivers, rebooted my pc, deleted localthumbcache, checked for last exceptions, tried better exceptions and found and removed script mods that were not have been up to date and a single broken cc, moved the mods folder to create a new one and moved my cc into that folder, moved my The Sims 4 folder and copied my saves file & mods into the new folders, and reinstalled the game and copied my saves & mods into the new folders. I also tried opening it on DX9.

I was playing last week with all of my mods after the latest patch just fine, even with the last exceptions, but now I don't even have new last exception files, and the game is still loading. I even went through and deleted mods I don't use, and cleared other junk files as well...what now???