I agree with you. I was having similar issues. It's not like they intend to fix any of this. This new expansion is so glitchy and nothing is working as intended. I see a major problem with something too. When you add the reaper to your family, it creates a new reaper to "reap" Well, I had a child with the reaper... So get this that child grew up and had a child with the reaper... how messed up is that? I'm so frustrated, I feel your struggle is my point. I hope they fix this stuff, but honestly I don't see it happening.