It's not about your ranking, it's about the overall experience of playing the match. What you're attempting to nurture is a sickness, a disease, just like alcoholism or gambling... a type of depression that has spread amongst too many players, these days, where you base your ideas of how well you are doing in life or how well you feel each day about yourself and your friends according to how well you performed last nite with your stats.
Learn to enjoy just playing the match and stop worry about everyone's stats. Get Healthy and get happy beyond how well you can or cannot play a game. Do that for yourself and your family.
