It's impossible to play this!

I am so sick of trying to beat the game instead of the opponent. Every match is a battle against the game itself! 26 years!!!! You’ve been making this game for 26 years, and it’s terrible! I simply don't understand how to pass the ball in this **bleep** game! I don't even aim the pass to the right (for example), but it... passes to the right anyway! You set the power to 2 bars, and it... passes with 3 or 4 bars of power. I conceded a penalty from 11 meters out—outside the goalkeeper's box. My ping doubled. My players are just 11 bushes on the pitch. And my tactics don't matter—it's just 11 bushes on the pitch. My AI-controlled players run away from the opponent right after he receives a pass. Or four of them rush at a single player. What exactly am I paying for? Just for the privilege of owning the game or actually playing it?! I don't understand how there can be a fair game when EA is the middleman! I've only been playing this game since February, and I honestly don't understand how people play it year after year! It is the **bleep** game in the history of humanity.