Game just sits and loads constantly

Is it just me or does any one else’s game load constantly and get stuck loading to where to have to reset your game. This happens to me a lot. I’ll be playing rivals, once the game ends, it just sits there and loads for 10 min before I can finally advance and leave the game. I’ll search players in my club and it will load for 10 minutes until it goes to that page. I’ll do an SBC and it will load for 10 minutes until I can finally complete it. I’ll try to play co op with my friend and I’ll click a tab for either live events, rivals or rush and it won’t let us in until it loads for a while, or we have to reset our game 2-3 times. I guess my first statement is wrong because it happens to my friend as well. It has to be the servers because I’ll watch streamers who also play on console not have that problem. I check my internet and I’m getting 20ms so that can’t be the problem. I’m trying to figure out why this keeps happening. It’s so hard to actually do objectives or get anything done in the game when it’s like this. I’m sure there’s no help for it as EA is just **bleep**, but figured I would come on here and see if it is happening to anyone else.