more than -2000rp due to glitchy servers

tldr: title

ive gotten so many code:leaves, failed to get token from ea app3 and other stuff during ranked matches, like being put into wrong server after ive connected to match and am in the pre game loading thing or whatever, ive just had this right now, (ik having nine out of ten teammates being dumb help me in losing rp, but this?, also pls dont judge me for my taste in music)

the ping is lower <1000 when ive switched to spotify, which just got updated, the ping was the same during update, remind you this is a ranked lobby, for which ive received a -90 penalty (currently im p4)

and this is the ping when i switch to the game (>1000) ive tried the process multiple times confirming when i switch to any different application the ping drops and rises back up when im in apex, it neither shows that im in ranked and neither the ranks of the players

bonus:

and when its not that i got put solo into a diamond lobby, yes the other two never joined, sure i can leave but why does ea even do that?