stewebabe Please remind me: do you own these packs in Steam or the EA App?
Please also run a search for City Living, which your other thread's screenshot shows is missing. Open a File Explorer window, click This PC in the left panel, and enter EP03 in the search field in the upper-right corner of the window. The search will take some time. When it's done, expand the window sideways so the entire path to each result is showing. Take a screenshot and post it here.
Disneygirl501 Please see the first post and accepted solution of this thread:
https://answers.ea.com/t5/PC/CURRENT-ISSUE-Sims-4-DLC-shows-as-installed-won-t-load-in-game/td-p/12416260
If that doesn't help, please run the search above for one of your missing (but listed as installed) packs. You can find the folder names here:
https://sims4.crinrict.com/eng/extras-2/available-packs-dlc/