Hi
@sHAYMAN83,
Please keep in mind we do not support account sharing in large part for this very reason, as the registered account owner is responsible for any activity that takes place on the account. Sorry to hear how that's impacted you in this case.
To clarify, an appeal is simply a request for our Terms of Service team to take another look at a situation to see whether an action was applied correctly.
Our ToS team is not here to be a mediator in conversations and try to determine who was in the right or wrong, or which violation was worse.
If both are violations, then both will result in an action, though the severity will depend on what was said as well as the history of the account. Death threats would absolutely be taken more seriously than cursing at someone, but that doesn't mean there's no penalty for cursing at another individual. Harassment of any form is not acceptable in our games.
This would be why, rather than sending insults back at someone, it is generally best to simply report and then place them on ignore. That way their account is brought to our attention to review and yours is not in jeopardy.