CasualSimmer4096 Crinrict asked me to look at your dxdiag, and I see two obvious issues. One is that the graphics driver is crashing repeatedly; the other is that the page file is almost all used. This is where the processor stores data that would normally be in RAM but doesn't fit.
Your laptop's page file is large enough in general, but if you have a lot of apps open, even if they're running in the background and you're not aware, that could explain why it's almost all used. It's possible it could explain the game issues, although the graphics driver crashes could too. And the game issues could be triggered by a conflicting app even without the page file problem. So please try playing in a clean boot, which means preventing all non-Microsoft services from opening. Here's how:
https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/topic/how-to-perform-a-clean-boot-in-windows-da2f9573-6eec-00ad-2f8a-a97a1807f3dd
The one service to leave enabled is the EABackgroundService, which the EA App needs in order to run. Disable the rest as described.
When you reboot your computer, go through the Task Manager's background processes list shutting down any service that doesn't absolutely need to be running, for example various HP apps might still be enabled. If you accidentally kill a critical process and it doesn't restart on its own, just reboot your computer again.
Don't open anything other than Sims 4 and the EA App while testing, not even a browser window.
If this helps, you can selectively reenable services until you find the culprit, then either leave that disabled or (if it belongs to an app you want to keep using) let me know what it is so we can try to fix the underlying issue.
If it doesn't help, please clean-uninstall and reinstall the graphics driver, and try again. Here's how:
https://crinrict.com/blog/2019/02/clean-re-install-of-graphics-drivers-with-display-driver-uninstaller-ddu.html
Use the newest driver HP provides for your laptop. Go here:
https://support.hp.com/us-en/drivers/laptops
Enter your serial number, choose your OS (just Windows 11 is fine) if prompted, click All Drivers, expand Driver-Graphics, and download the newest Intel driver by version number. The first number matters most, e.g. 32 is newer than 31; after that, the last four numbers matter.
You can test not in a clean boot after reinstalling the driver if you want, but if that doesn't help, try the clean boot again.