I have horrible ping on my servers

I'm Australian and I'm playing on my own servers, the one thats closest to me makes me sit on about 300 ping while the second closest makes me sit on 900 to 1000 ping, but I play on ap-northeast-1 and I get 200 to 300 ping.

I've tried making sure my fps is set to 60, my xbox is always on a ethernet connection, the internet has no issues, I'm getting 110mbps download and 20mbps for upload so there's no issues there. I'm only having issues playing apex, I'll rubber band all over the place and freeze mid match

I haven't been able to play in over a month so please fix the servers 😩